Archive for February, 2007

Heroes

Monday, February 19th, 2007

Who are your heroes? Who do you look up to? It’s important for you to have heroes because heroes personify what you could be. They personify your ideals. They embody your highest values.

If you tell me who your heroes are, I’ll know what your values are. People who don’t have heroes have not yet identified their highest ideals. As you grow older and your values change, your heroes will change as well.

Heroes inspire us to greatness. They remind us of the greatness that the human spirit is capable of. They draw us to that greatness.

Many of my heroes are people who overcame great odds to realize their dreams. People like; Wilma Rudolph, who overcame polio to become an Olympic Champion in track at the 1960 Rome Summer Olympics, General Patton, who moved his armies faster than anyone thought possible, Louis Pasteur, who’s belief in bacteria’s role in causing disease led him to invent pasteurization and to discover a cure for rabies.

Some of my other heroes are; Thomas Edison, who personified persistence in his search for the best filament in his light bulb, the Wright Brothers, who worked for years in the face of other people’s ridicule before their airplane finally flew, Henry Ford, who built a single block engine when even his own engineers said it couldn’t be done, Abraham Lincoln, who overcame depression, bankruptcy, and seemingly endless political defeats before he won the Presidency, and finally, Scott Hamilton, who overcame a childhood disease that kept him from growing to go on to become an Olympic figure skating champion. Â

These heroes constantly remind me that greatness is possible if we will only believe and act on our belief. Seeing Scott Hamilton win the Olympic Gold Medal inspired me to pursue my Olympic dream.

Make a list of your heroes. But don’t just admire them. Admire the qualities that made them great, work hard to emulate them, use their greatness to fuel your belief that great things are possible, and use them as a springboard to greatness in your own life.

 

Olympic Motivational Speaker Ruben Gonzalez
www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

Welcome to our side….

Tuesday, February 13th, 2007

A young woman was about to finish her first year of college.
 
Like so many others her age, she considered herself to be very liberal politically, and was very much in favor of the redistribution of wealth.
 
She was deeply ashamed that her father was a rather staunch conservative, a feeling she openly expressed.  Based on the lectures that she had participated in, and the occasional chat with a professor, she felt that her father had for years harbored an evil, selfish desire to keep what he thought should be his.

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Singapore, a great place to live…

Monday, February 12th, 2007

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The Singapore river as seen from my hotel room…Â

I just spent two great days in Singapore where I spoke for the members of the Singapore Swimming Club .

Singapore is an ultra-modern city about 80 miles North of the Equator. Singapore is the Southernmost point in Asia. It used to belong to Malasia but has been independednt since 1965.

Singapore has virtually no crime, and is the cleanest city I have ever visited (and I’ve been to a lot of cities in 33 different countries).

Singapore is an island with 4.5 million people that live in high rises. They keep reclaiming land from the South China Sea to have more room for their growing population that is expected to reach 6.5 million in 20 years.

There are parks everywhere. The whole time it felt like I was in a perfect city created in a Sim City computer simulation.

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Thinking ahead….

The people governing Singapore have thought of everything. Here’s a sign in a parking lot warning people that their vehicles will be booted if they park indiscriminately. I wish they had those signs in Houston!

I did not see any old cars, any unwashed cars, or any dented cars while in Singapore. Everyone is very friendly, and very courteous to each other. It’s just a great place.

There are about 1 Million expats living in Singapore. The lifestyle is high paced like New York or like Hong Kong.

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The world’s biggest container port…Â

This container port is massive! Miles and miles of containers and cranes loading containers onto ships from around the world.

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Outside my hotel by the Singapore River…

The Singapore River has a Paris feel.

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The beach in Sandora…

Beautiful beaches 15 minutes from downtown Singapore. The Shangrila hotel is right on the beach.

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Radio interview while in Singapore…

While in Singapore, I was interviewed for an hour by Stanley Leong of Singapore Radio.

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Phillip Tan and I at the City Mall in Singapore….

My host in Singapore was Phillip Tan. Phillip took care of me like a king!

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Malay restaurant in Singapore…

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Outside a Singaporean restaurant…

The food was great, the hosts were great, and the island was great!

 

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www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

Vietnam, a great place to visit….

Monday, February 12th, 2007

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Beautiful oriental homes around the lake…

The contrast between the old city and the five star Hanoi Sheraton was incredible. It really felt like time warp as soon as I left the hotel.

I was in Hanoi to close Orange Business Services’ Asian region sales kickoff meeting. The guys at Orange were a blast! Orange is a French telecommunications company.

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Two ladies carrying vegetables in their hanging baskets.

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Overlooking the river…

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Some of the ladies were carrying baskets that weighed over 50 pounds. Shoulders of steel!

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Popcorn anybody?

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Can you do this?

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Quiet back street in Hanoi…

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Not so quiet back street in Hanoi…

I hope to get to return to Vietnam soon. It was a great experience!

 

 

Olympic Motivational Speaker Ruben Gonzalez
www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

Hanoi, Vietnam, truly an exotic destination….

Monday, February 12th, 2007

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Riding from the Hanoi Airport to the Sheraton

 

The ride from the airport was incredible. We were surrounded by hundreds of motorcycles loaded to the max with building materials, fruits, vegetables, hay, cumquat trees, you name it.

Everyone is honking their horns but nobody is mad. They don’t honk out of road rage, they are just letting each other know where they are.

It felt like being in the middle of a school of fish.

I was in Hanoi for two days and did not see a single accident. It looks like upper caos to the untrained eye, but these guys really know what they are doing!

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How many bales of hay can you load up on Your bike?

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Cumquat trees…

 

I was in Hanoi right before the Tet Chinese New Year celebration. Everyone was selling cunquat trees and peach blossom trees - the traditional Tet symbols.

2007 is the year of the pig.

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Have cumquat tree, will deliver!

 

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www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

Tokyo Narita Airport

Monday, February 12th, 2007

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Sushi, the breakfast of champions…

Breakfast during a long layover at the Tokyo Narita Airport on the way to an Asian speaking tour through Vietnam and Singapore.

 

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www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

Paying the Price of Success

Monday, February 12th, 2007

A funny thing started happening the first year I was learning how to luge. Everyday, there were less people showing up for practice. They were actually quitting on their dream. I could not believe it!

Maybe they didn’t want it as bad as I did. Maybe they were not smart enough to call someone when they were struggling. I don’t know why they quit.

They all had great reasons for quitting. They rationalized it real well. “It’s too hard. It’s too cold. It’s too expensive. I miss my family. I don’t like the luge.”

I didn’t like the luge either! I was killing myself out there. But I was willing to do it regardless of the costs. Why? Because the luge was the vehicle to my Olympic dream.

Whenever you rationalize something, you’re just saying something that sounds good. A rationalization is telling yourself a rational lie.

Four years and a few broken bones later, I was walking into the Opening Ceremonies of the 1988 Calgary Winter Olympics. I felt so happy, so proud; but at the same time I was feeling sad for the ones who had quit. After all, what were they feeling now?

The Ones who had quit along the way were watching the Olympics on TV. I’ll bet they felt sick inside. I’ll bet it hurt so much that they had to change channels. I’ll bet they can’t watch the Olympics for the rest of their lives.

The regret must be eating them up. I’ll bet every time they think about the Olympics they ask themselves, “What if I hadn’t quit?” On their deathbed they’ll be thinking, “What if?”

I paid a huge price to make it to the Olympics. Everyone will pay a huge price for success. The price of success is non-negotiable. But the price of regret is hundreds of times bigger. So you might as well go for success. It’s a lot more fun.

Which will you choose: immediate gratification or long term success? The quality of your life hinges on that choice. Which will it be? It’s your choice.

 

Olympic Motivational Speaker Ruben Gonzalez
www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

How to Develop an Unstoppable Will

Monday, February 12th, 2007

Before I went to Lake Placid to learn how to luge, a very successful businessman friend of mine told me to call him if I was having a hard time. He promised he would encourage me and “get me back on the sled.”

As soon as I returned to my room after my first day ever of luge training, I called my businessman-friend.

“Craig. This is nuts! My side hurts. I think I broke my foot. That’s it. I’m going back to soccer!”

Craig interrupted me, “Ruben, get in front of a mirror!”

“What?”

“I said get in front of a mirror!”

I stretched the phone cord and stood in front of a full length mirror.

“Now repeat after me. No matter how bad it is, and how bad it gets, I’m going to make it!”

I felt like an idiot staring at myself in the mirror. In the most wimpy, wishy-washy way possible, I said, “No matter how bad it is, and how bad it gets, I’m going to make it!”

“C’mon! Say it right. You’re Mr. Olympic Man! That’s all you ever talk about! Are you going to do it or not?”

I got serious, “No matter how bad it is, and how bad it gets, I’m going to make it!”

“Again! Louder!”

“No matter how bad it is, and how bad it gets, I’m going to make it!”

And again and again and again I said it over and over.

The first time I said it, I felt like an idiot. After repeating the phrase five times, I thought, “Hey, I’m feeling kind of good. I’m standing a little bit straighter…”

After saying it ten times, I jumped up in the air and shouted, “I don’t care what happens. I’m going to make it. I can break both legs. Bones heal. I’ll come back and I will make it. I will be an Olympian!”

Right there and then, I made a decision that from that point on, I was going to treat a broken bone like a temporary inconvenience. A broken bone was not going to make me quit. It was not even going to affect my attitude. It was only going to make me tougher inside. You have to learn to meet hard times with a harder will.

 

Olympic Motivational Speaker Ruben Gonzalez
www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

Get Excited About Your Dream

Monday, February 12th, 2007

At the end of a luge run, you talk to your coach on the walkie-talkie, then ride a truck back to the top of the track to do it again. But when we were first learning how to luge, they made us walk up the mountain carrying our sleds.

So, there I was, carrying my sled back up the mountain after my first wheeled luge run ever. Since it was summertime, there were a few tourists watching us train. As I was walking back up the track after my first run, I remember coming face to face with an older man who had just seen me slide down the mountain. Our eyes met and I told him, serious as a heart attack, “I’m going to be in the Olympics in four years.”

He looked at me, paused, and then said, “Son, I think you’re going to make it. I can see the passion in your eyes.”

Can people see the passion in your eyes when you tell them about your plans, dreams and aspirations? The more passionate and enthusiastic you are about your dreams, the more others will believe in you and the more followers you’ll attract. Your passion will breed the conviction you’ll need to turn mediocrity into excellence. Your passion will help you overcome any circumstance and help you become unstoppable.

We all have the capacity to get passionate. Unfortunately most of us keep our enthusiasm bottled up. It’s like emotional constipation.

After all, what if you told someone about your dreams and they laughed at you? Or even worse, what if they didn’t laugh and you didn’t reach your dream? That would not feel good, would it? Who cares? Be enthusiastic anyways. Having small thinkers laugh at you is part of the price of success. Do you want to be mediocre or do you want to be great? To be great is to be misunderstood.

 

Olympic Motivational Speaker Ruben Gonzalez
www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com

The Driving Force Behind Success

Monday, February 12th, 2007

When I was learning how to luge, I was placed in the beginner luge class with fourteen other “aspiring Olympians.” We were training in the old bobsled track, a mean concrete track, one half mile long and filled with wicked turns. This was summer training to learn the basics of driving a luge sled.

We trained on wheeled sleds at fifty miles per hour. We wore tennis shoes, shorts, a t-shirt… and a crash helmet (I hate it when they call it that). If you crashed, you went straight to the hospital. That’s the weeding out process in the sport of luge. I guess they want to know right away if you’re serious or not.

The coaches made it difficult on us purposely. They wanted to know right away how bad we wanted it. They didn’t want to waste any time with anyone who was not serious.

There are many facets to success. You have to have a dream – not just any dream; a dream that takes your breath away; a dream that you’re willing to fight for. You have to believe in yourself. You have to take massive action with singleness of purpose. And, finally, you have to have the attitude that you are willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes. Then, and only then, is success realistic.

Your desire will determine whether you’ll realize your dream because how badly you want it determines what will make you quit. Burning desire allows a person with average ability to successfully compete with those who have far more ability.

Desire allows you to give it everything you’ve got. It helps you reach your full potential. Intense desire allows people to win against overwhelming odds.

If your dream is not an obsession, as soon as you come across obstacles, you’ll quit. As soon as the challenge of reaching your dream becomes an inconvenience, you’ll give up.

Success is not convenient. Trust me. In order to succeed you will need to inconvenience yourself in a big way – for a long time. That’s why it’s so important to be driven, excited, and passionate about your dream. If your “why?” is big enough, the “how” will take care of itself.

 

Olympic Motivational Speaker Ruben Gonzalez
www.TheOlympicSpeaker.com